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Embracing Recovery from Chemical Dependency; A Personal Recovery Plan Workbook
by Deborah Corley, PhD; Jennifer Schneider, MD, PhD; Richard Irons, MD
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The Wounded Healer: An Addiction-Sensitive Approach to the Sexually Exploitative Professional
by Richard Irons, MD and Jennifer P. Schneider, MD
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Why would a physician, counselor, or clergyman violate professional boundaries and get sexually involved with a patient, counselee, or parishioner? Why is consensual sex between professional and patient unethical and potentially harmful to the patient? What role does addiction play in sexual exploitation? Can sexually exploitative professionals ever safely return to the same job after treatment? Based on many actual cases, this book answers these questions and many more. "'The Wounded Healer' is a classic and should be required reading in every medical school and seminary," says A.W. Richard Sipe, author of "Sex, Priests, and Power."


Traumatic Relationships and Serious Mental Disorders
by Jon G. Allen
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Mental, physical, or sexual abuse in close personal relationships commonly results in trauma that is very different from the trauma of accidents, illness, or war. Little is more intellectually challenging, emotionally demanding, and difficult than therapeutic work with survivors of such traumatic personal relationships and those close to them.

This book provides psychologists, psychiatrists, nurses, and counselors with a powerful conceptual framework and a concise, masterly review of a huge knowledge base that will support and guide treatment and prevention programs for these serious problems.


Coping With Trauma: A Guide to Self-Understanding
by Jon G. Allen
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Coping With Trauma: A Guide to Self-Understanding provides a comprehensive yet highly readable summary of current professional knowledge for people of diverse backgrounds and education. Based on an extensive review of contemporary professional literature, Coping With Trauma incorporates the author's experience conducting educational groups for patients with a history of severe trauma. In teaching these groups, Dr. Allen learns from his patients, who have generously and openly shared their personal experiences. Their lessons form a vital part of this book. Those who are struggling to cope with the direct effects of trauma will find Coping With Trauma to be an informative and sensitive guide to better understanding themselves and their experience. Partners and family members of traumatized individuals can gain increased understanding of and empathy for their loved ones, in addition to learning how to be more supportive. Mental health professionals who work with people with a history of trauma will find the book to be a useful digest of current knowledge that they can share with their patients.


Open Hearts - Facing the Shadow: Starting Sexual and Relationship Recovery
by Patrick J. Carnes
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This book is the first to take techniques used by thousands of people recovering from sex addiction and show, step by step, how to break free of this disease and live a healthier, more fulfilling life. Each of this hope-filled workbook’s chapters sets the stage for the recovery tasks at hand, and then provides practical, easy-to-follow exercises specifically designed to help understand and address them.


Out of the Shadows
by Patrick Carnes, PhD
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The first ground-breaking book to clearly identify and define sexual addiction. It remains the premier text in the field. A must for anyone looking to understand the illness. Dr. Carnes examines the origins of sexual addiction, as well as detailing the addiction cycle.


The Betrayal Bond
by Patrick Carnes, PhD
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What does domestic abuse, child abuse, sexual harassment and exploitation, cult membership, kidnapping, and addiction have in common: victims often bond deeply with those who hurt them and will not leave or escape - even to the point of death. The Betrayal Bond is a groundbreaking description of that bonding process. While traumatic bonding has been recognized by professionals for decades, Dr. Carnes focuses on how "betrayal" intensifies trauma. Understanding betrayal is the key to making a path out of destructive relationships. The book blends the latest breakthroughs in both the trauma and addiction fields - a must read.


Back from Betrayal: Recovering from his Affairs
Jennifer P. Schneider MD
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An original look at extramarital affairs which offers practical help to the spouses and lovers of sex addicts: the recognition that their partners' sexual behavior is a compulsive disorder for which they are not to be shamed or blamed, the comforting realization that they are not alone, and clear insight into the role of coaddicts and how to recover from their own codependency."


The Four Agreements : A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom
a Toltec Wisdom Book
by Miguel Ruiz, Don Miguel Ruiz
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Sit at the foot of a native elder and listen as great wisdom of days long past is passed down. In The Four Agreements shamanic teacher and healer Don Miguel Ruiz exposes self-limiting beliefs and presents a simple yet effective code of personal conduct learned from his Toltec ancestors. Full of grace and simple truth, this handsomely designed book makes a lovely gift for anyone making an elementary change in life, and it reads in a voice that you would expect from an indigenous shaman. The four agreements are these: Be impeccable with your word. Don't take anything personally. Don't make assumptions. Always do your best. It's the how and why one should do these things that make The Four Agreements worth reading and remembering.
--P. Randall Cohan


The Four Agreements Companion Book : Using the Four Agreements to Master the Dream of Your Life
by Miguel Ruiz, Janet Mills, Don Miguel Ruiz
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In The Four Agreements, Mexican shaman Miquel Ruiz built his teachings around four agreements: be impeccable with your word; don't take anything personally; don't make assumptions; always do your best. Now Ruiz offers readers a companion guide, making practical mysticism out of the
ancient Toltec tradition. On the one hand this is an eloquent introduction to Toltec teachings, offering a fascinating discussion of how one's life is a dream (and a dream that's often dictated by others) and how "domestication" is the root of human suffering. On the other hand don Miquel has also written a Toltec self-help book, offering specific tools, exercises, and suggestions
to help readers live their own dreams, become more attentive, and make conscious agreements with themselves. For readers who feel aligned with the Toltec tradition, this will certainly be a powerful ally as they begin the dream of transformation.
--Gail Hudson


A Gradual Awakening
by Stephen Levine
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Poet and meditation teacher Levine writes simply and gently about his own personal experiences with and insights into vipassana meditation. An inspiring book for anyone interested in deep personal growth.


Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love & Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships
by David Schnarch
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In Passionate Marriage, Dr. Schnarch shares what he has learned about how couples can—and must—simultaneously break through the sexual and the emotional blocks that hold them back from total satisfaction. He counsels that every sexual exchange, from kissing to daring erotic behaviors, is a picture of an entire relationship—a reflection of how you and your partner feel about yourselves and each other outside the bedroom. This respectful, erotic, uplifting, and spiritual guide to sexual and emotional fulfillment makes a passionate marriage within the reach of every couple.


Romancing the Shadow: A Guide to Soul Work for a Vital, Authentic Life
by Connie Zweig, Steve Wolf
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Beneath the social mask we wear every day, we have a hidden shadow side: an impulsive, wounded, sad, or isolated part that we generally try to ignore, but which can erupt in hurtful ways. As therapists Connie Zweig and Steve Wolf show in this landmark book, the shadow can actually be a source of emotional richness and vitality, and acknowledging it can be a pathway to healing and an authentic life. "Romancing the shadow"—meeting your dark side, beginning to understand its unconscious messages, and learning to use its powerful energies in productive ways—is the challenging and exciting soul work that Zweig and Wolf offer in this practical, rewarding guide.

Drawing on the timeless teachings of Carl Jung and compelling stories from their clinical practices, Zweig and Wolf reveal how the shadow guides your choices in love, sex, marriage, friendship, work, and family life. With their innovative method, you can uncover the unique patterns and purpose of your shadow and learn to defuse negative emotions; reclaim forbidden or lost feelings; achieve greater self-acceptance; heal betrayal; reimagine and re-create relationships; cultivate compassion for others; renew creative expressions; and find purpose in your suffering.

The shadow knows why good people sometimes do bad things. Romancing the shadow and learning to read the messages it encodes in daily life can deepen your consciousness, imagination, and soul.


Don't Let Your Emotions Run Your Life: How Dialectical Behavior Therapy Can Put You in Control
by Scott E. Spradlin, Foreword by Cynthia Sanderson
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Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a therapeutic technique designed to counter extreme emotional reactions — before they lead to overwhelming anger, depression, anxiety, and stress-related ailments. An eclectic mix of cognitive-behavioral techniques, skills training, Zen, and existentialism, DBT helps readers pay attention to their emotions, assess their blocks to controlling them, become less judgmental of themselves when they lose control, and ultimately eliminate overpowering feelings. Worksheets and assessment exercises round out this breakthrough program.


 
 
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